Coming into this study abroad program, I had every intention that this was going to be a two-week vacation and less of a learning experience. That could not have been any further from the truth. I doubted that two weeks would give me enough time to gain a “global perspective” that the Carlson School requires all students to have, but I can honestly say I have learned so much from my time in Spain. Two aspects of Global Intelligence that I have a deeper understanding of are Empathy and Self-Awareness.
Understanding What it Means to Stand in the Shoes of a Foreigner
Before this trip, I had never left the country, much less to a country where I barely speak the language. Language quickly became one of the hardest aspects for me throughout this trip, but I actually learned a lot because of my lack of knowledge. Almost every time that I had to communicate with someone who didn’t speak English or didn’t speak it well, I thought of what it would be like if the roles were reversed? Would I be as understanding or patient? In all honesty, I can’t say that before this trip I would have been. I now know what it feels like to be the foreigner where I don’t understand what is going on, and I am grateful for that. It has given me a much better perspective as well as empathy for those people who go through these same situations here in the United States.
Fitting the American Stereotype
One thing that I never really thought about before this trip was what an American looks like, and in all honesty, I didn’t really think Americans looked a certain way. Again, this assumption couldn’t be further from the truth. Without saying a word, waiters, store clerks, and strangers would know to speak English to us. There’s a number of obvious things that I can think of, as displayed in the picture below, like cowboy hats, matching floral T-shirts, and khaki shorts. But there were other behaviors that I became self-aware of that set us apart from others. At the dinners, both in small groups and large, we were the loudest people there whereas others were having quiet and intimate conversations. This aspect of culture relates to collectivism. Spanish people value time with each other, so having real conversations at dinner without distractions from cell phones or even waiters is important. Americans are usually talking over one another to be herd which is much more of an individualistic behavior.
The biggest surprise of all that I had this trip was learning so much in so little time. It really doesn’t matter the amount of time you spend in a new place, it’s the experiences that you have there that help mold your perspective.











