When you say that you will pick me up at 8am that means I will be on my front steps at 7:59am waiting for you to pull up. This aspect of my daily life reflects the impact of the monochronic scheduling our culture in the States has developed. In the case that someone does arrives late I am quick to build frustration, which did not bode well for me in the polychronic scheduling culture of Spain. Another aspect of our study abroad trip that made me uncomfortable was talking with accents. Although there were plenty of times I was frustrated and uncomfortable, my experience abroad has positively affected my Global Intelligence.
Loosening my perspective of scheduling
I’ll be the first to admit that my irritation towards the scheduling of Spain did not subside quickly. My first irritation really came when we experienced La Boqueria for the first time. I expected everything to be open from when the website said it was open to when it was closed. Many stalls were closed early. To me this seemed like a lost opportunity from a business perspective. However, after reflection I realized the importance of life outside of business opportunities and following a schedule closely. I now see the value of closing early because you want to spend time with family or friends and in that realization, I also feel myself becoming more understanding of a polychronic schedule. Also, this made me more self-aware of the offensiveness of my outward expression of my frustration.

Using an accent is polite
I should preface this section explicitly stating this is purely subjective. As a white male in the States I have felt that any references to other cultures and ethnicities I make are usually offensive or racist without any intention of doing so. An example of how this feeling has shaped my perspective is when I speak Spanish I feel like I am being offensive when I use an accent. This belief made me uncomfortable speaking the language at first. However, after reflection and discussion with other classmates I arrived at a different conclusion. I put myself in a local’s shoes and thought about how I would feel if some foreigner spoke my language with the proper accent. I would greatly appreciate the effort and understand them better. Speaking with an accent helps understanding and shows a consideration of the other cultural because it shows that you are willing to be uncomfortable to make them comfortable.
You must leave your comfort zone to understand and care for others of a different culture
As a US citizen, it is easy to believe that we are supreme relative to most countries due to economic success and other technological advancements. However, this is a toxic belief system to have if we ever want to comfort those of another country. Whether it is a difference in scheduling perspective or the way we communicate with each other there is always an opportunity to show awareness and empathy to an individual of another culture by listening and willing to adapt to their own norms. I am thankful for this experience and look forward to having meaningful relationships with others from a different culture.











